Is being at peace in a relationship considered love?

Hold flippin crap. you sound exactly like I did a month ago. Ive been dating my guy for two years and I used to wonder if I should be with him because he didnt do things like you described. But beleive me girl that stuff is not real (I mean it can be but its not reality) Ive realized that most guys arent like that. the only way guys differ is by the first part you described. Love is when you feel "at home" with the person. and by what you described it seems like thats how you feel. I feel like theres not many people in our lives that can make us feel that comfortable, it seems like you have a good guy however your just needing more pion. just tell him that he'll understand. if anything start doing cute things first and he might pick up on it (but dont expect it) you just have to remember he is a guy and they do not think like women AT ALL. and i think a lot of women tend to forget that. i feel the exact same way with my guy and can be whatever, say whatever and act however I want around him and he still loves me no matter what, he truly is my best friend and I dont know what i would do without him. ive had many talks with him about things that i would want out of the relationships and its taken sometime but I can tell he's trying. You should do the same, talk to your guy remember relationships are work. if your looking for The Notebook romance your not gonna find it. what you have is what a lot of people only hope to find, true unconditional love. Dont give up and dont let this one go